Unwanted Advice

Nowadays, I'm pretty careful about how much I share with people. But not too long ago, I decided to take a small risk and share a little of my true feelings about God with a small group of Christians. We were reading something about how God is always there for us. The official Christian "party …

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The Church of Emotional Mismanagement

It's no exaggeration...there has been a lot of emotional mismanagement in the history of the church, and at this point I don't even think this is a shocking statement. Books like Emotionally Healthy Spirituality are already out there proclaiming it. But allow me to present one survivor's take on what it's been like to grow up …

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There is no peace!

A friend recently shared about how she was feeling pressured to attend a family event - she wanted to go because it was in honor of a loved (and non-abusive) family member, but she knew her abusers would be there, too, and normally their mere presence is enough to create nightmares and flashbacks for weeks …

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